Now that we’re in the final month of the year,
it’s time to start looking ahead. Most people like to whip up a new year’s
resolution on the first day of the new year, but if you ask me, that’s a little
late to decide something so impactful. It’s no wonder so many resolutions fall
to the wayside. If people took them more seriously and had drafted them ahead
of time, we’d see a lot more change and goal accomplishment in our friends and
family members.
For a lot of these goals, they almost always
involve tangible objectives to reach, like losing weight, traveling to a
beautiful destination internationally, saving so much money, and putting on
muscle. But what about the intangible goals? Why don’t we emphasize behavior,
mental health, knowledge, and a lot of those other great things about our
health and lives? I think those are the most valuable resolutions anyone could
put down for themselves, and they’re the ones that typically are much more
enlightening and rewarding for longer than a mere year.
Since 2020 is on the near horizon, I implore
you to out something new. Perhaps you’d like to see what you could do by
modeling after a few of my own goals.
Give
Donate to charity. Donate to a non-profit
organization. Donate food. Donate clothes. Donate your time.
These are much easier to accomplish than most
people let on. The problem is “finding the time”, which is abundant for most
people. It’s just a matter of focusing on the right things in life. Attempt to
give more this upcoming year, even if it’s just a few dollars each month. A
little goes a long way when everyone is giving.
Focus
on being positive
As hard as it may sound, this is not that hard to actually do. It’s just
hard to remember to do, more than anything. But if you can remember to look at
the bright side, smile, compliment others, request things nicely, and do your
absolute best, you’re making your community, home, office, or whatever else a
much better and more positive place. This is all it takes.
More
gifts isn’t a bad thing
Cardboard boxes are the king of gift giving.
Make sure to set aside a few cardboard boxes you’ll inevitably open around the
holidays this December and put the names of close friends or family members on
each. This will remind you to get them a gift randomly throughout the year.
Don’t make it for their birthday, mother’s or father’s day, or other major
holidays. Just do it out of the blue and watch the look on their face.